Can anyone give advice on how to meet ppl when u r in the closet been on sites today but never get any replies. Starting to think just focus on meeting women instead even though I'm confused as I'm genuinely convinced that's its impossible to meet other guys now I'm older and feel the whole thing Is a complete waste of time. Feeling really low about this as wanna meet someone I'm a nice person and I know I deserve a better life than this :icon_sad:
Where do u find them hun? Do u know of any? need to sort this quick as I have been in this position before. Soon I will just give up and go back into denial and won't even bother tryin for ages maybe months. I may look young for 37 but I'm not gettin any younger. I have been to one before I met some gay bloke in charge of a group thing where gay ppl and ppl who are confused go to this coffee meeting. It didn't feel right at all and I left said goodbye and didn't get back in contact. Cuz it felt wrong it made me certain I couldn't be gay otherwise it would have felt right but here am again. It's so confusing I ain't got a clue what I want I have no sex life at all with either sex as it all went wrong the last time I tried it with a woman couldn't get an erection but then its always been like that. I hate myself so much because of it xxx
No... Gay hiking groups, gay museum groups, gay architecture groups, etc, etc, etc Meetup: find your people - Meetup
Do u have to put your real name in for the secure sign up? If so i guess I will just have to risk ppl I know seeing me on there. Can't just keep hiding away xxx
Meetup allows any name you like. Use a disposable/anonymous email account if you wish. Find a group tht is gay and fits your interests.
Have you tried doing a Google search? Your profile states Birmingham, and I notice that running "Birmingham LGBT" through Google turns up at least a few hits.
