This weekend, I'm seeing an old friend from high school. He knows I'm gay, and I know he's straight. He's just out of a bad marriage himself. The problem? I thought he was hot in high school and he's even hotter now. I'm going to have to be careful to keep my lust in check...
If he is truly straight there is no reason to be nervous. I just met the most personable, handsome gay 30 year old. Jaw dropping looks and personality. You simply enjoy the view and observe the boundaries. It will be fine. Being gay does not equate to being a letch. Tom
I know. He's a good guy and I'm not worried about it. It's more that for so long, I've kept my sexual thoughts, feelings, urges on simmer on the back burner. And now, since I've started the coming out process, it seems like I'm lusting after every guy I see, lol.
this dies down after a while, heh. it's like you get more comfortable with your sexuality and want to be a bit more picky, or be neutral and wait for the person or something
be careful ! he is vulnerable right now and maybe questioning himself , he may turn to you, i wouldn't want you to get hurt.
Similarly, his ego may need a boost. If he's hot tell him and make him feel better. I tell my gay friends they look great when they do.
I had dinner with my friend tonight. Lots and lots of fun. And yep, he is one hell of a handsome man. And straight. He even said, "sex with my ex never got beyond so-so, but with my new gf, holy shit is it good." Damn! But, it was great to see him and just be around him again. It's been 25 years since i've seen him. And i'm hoping to stay in touch with him more.
Glad everything went great! (!) Aint nothing more beautiful than an old friendship coming back together. :eusa_pray
