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Update....

Discussion in 'LGBT Later in Life' started by Bear101, Mar 9, 2014.

  1. Bear101

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    Hey everyone,

    Sorry I haven't been around in awhile. Life has been beyond crazy.

    First, I have moved to this "big" city. And I'm LOVING it. People are incredibly friendly here and just plain nice. Still staying at a long-term hotel, but I'm hoping to be in an apartment within a month.

    Second, I joined a men's coming out support group through the local LGBT center. Very, very nice guys.

    Third, I came out to my daughter (14). It truly ended up being a non-event. She actually smiled and I think it helped her understand what was going on and that she wasn't responsible for the divorce (even though I've told her that multiples of times).

    Fourth, I came out to the rest of my family that didn't already know. Non-events.

    Fifth, I actually went to a LGBT friendly church this morning. I didn't particularly care for the style of worship, but they were nice.

    Lastly, I've got the possibility of a gigantic opportunity. I'm still praying for it to happen. And I'd appreciate your prayers as well.

    I think that's it. It's been a BUSY couple of weeks, lol.
     
  2. MAXWELL45

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    Bear, you sound like you are doing really good and being proactive. Very good for you. I see good things to come for you. Very good update!
     
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    Wow! Wonderful news all around, especially the bit about your daughter. Your coming out probably took a weight off her shoulders, and moreover you set a good example for her by being honest and clear about who you are. She'll probably grow up to be a more courageous person because of your courage. Congratulations on being your authentic lovely self. Hope things continue to move in a positive direction.

    (*hug*)
     
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    I so very happy for you! I hope things continue to go your way. You can count on my prayers.

    Tim (*hug*)
     
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    Fantastic update! I'm so happy for you, especially about your daughter. That is just awesome that you can be authentic with her now.
     
  6. GayDadStr8Marig

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    Great news, Bear, glad things are turning up nicely for you.
     
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    Hi bear. I am happy to hear things are going so well for you and I am thrilled at how well things went with your daughter. Congratulations
     
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    congratulations. i'll keep you in my thoughts and look forward to more good news.