It has finally happened. I have just come out to my wife (like 10 minutes ago). I'm in my mid 30s. It was one of the most terrifying things I have ever done, but she seems ok with it. Her response: "Well, no-one is 100% gay or straight so it's fine. As long as you haven't cheated on me, we can check out guys together at the mall together". Haha. I have never cheated on her, so as it stands, I suppose it is all good. Although nothing has really changed, I feel like a HUGE load has been lifted! YEAH! :icon_bigg
Hi Yes when I came out to my fiance it was a tremendous relief!! But be warned... expect some underlying insecurities. I wish you the best!
congrats, be ready for some questions as has been said. would be nice to check out guys with your spouse LOL. years ago i used to hang out with a lesbian friend at the mall, we checked out girls together, had a blast, she always figured she could get the girl before i could, she was probably right, haha
Hi Egan, congratulations and good luck comparing notes in the mall! My wife is often asking me who I fancy when we watch films on the TV.
