just wanted to share some great news. went on a dating site, almost gave up. then a wonderful woman and i found each other. i'm 48 and she's 50 goes to prove romance can happen even at our age.
well, it' tomorrow, our first time seeing each other face to face. i'm nervous as hell, so is she. wish me luck.:eek:
It happened to me too. Came out gay at age 62--never had an inkling that I ever was. Never been attracted before to men. Went to the gay bars-I am an early bird-in at 5 and out by 7 pm. So I missed the "real action" but I didn't think that I would get any successful results. All were 20 and 30 somethings and neither them or I were interested although I am sure it is a real gay fantasy to get them younger than you are. The bartender at one bar took pity on me and said you should go with online dating. After four months, I was depressed, real depressed. Thought that I would die alone. Was resigned to that, then I looked at the "free photos" on ********** for several weeks until, until, I saw a face of someone who had a real, sincere smile and a kind face. Immediately, I got the three month mail subscription which allowed me to email him. Sent him a picture of my face, we met, and we went to his apartment that same day. Two days later, we did something really serious and we are living together for the past six months. Funny thing, he is two years younger than me and he thought he would never find anyone after his partner of three years dumped him to move South. No real arguments, loving and caressing every night. Not bragging-but he and I want to love and live forever. So, online dating is really the way to go if, if, if you are really serious about a LTR, although a lot of people just file that term away in the truth department with "The check is in the mail".
well, we had our first date yesterday. it was amazing, she is amazing. if i wasn't already in love with her, i would have fallen in love with her that day. i cried and cried when she had to leave. can't wait to spend more time with her.