So, I decided to reach out to a Facebook friend from college days. His story is very similar to mine although he came out to his wife and family 8 years ago. It has felt so good to come out to him. He is being very supportive and open with me about his journey. We did not really connect in college but have known of one another over the years. I am so thankful for you all and for the shared journey together. Each of you here, both the newbies and those who have been posting awhile have made such a difference in my life and thinking. I have still not talked to my wife. This is still waiting.