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do you think they would mind?

Discussion in 'LGBT Later in Life' started by Emmanuella, Aug 18, 2014.

  1. Emmanuella

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    A few weeks ago I saw a Facebook ad for a lesbian brunch group in my city. I immediately became excited and decided to join. When I clicked on the page, I realized that the group was specified for women over 30. At first I decided to drop it (I'm 27...close enough, I suppose?!) , but yesterday my curiosity got the best of me and I requested to join. They accepted my request. Now, I would love to attend the next event, but I'm unsure of how they would react to my age.

    If you were attending an event aimed toward lesbians over the age of 30, would it bother you to see a (rather young looking) 27 year old there?
     
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    Nope. I'd be ecstatic?
     
  3. Benway

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    Yeah, I honestly don't see a problem with it, I mean, I'm 27 and a lot of guys well into their 50s are way into me which I'm absolutely cool with, but I'm not sure how it applies with lesbians though I do think it'd be fine.
     
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    Go go go girl. Nobody will care about a little thing like that. :thumbsup:
     
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    Well, you're closer to 30 than 20, so why not????

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    I’m sure they won’t mind and you are close enough in age but perhaps they have stipulated an age limit because the events they organise are more likely to appeal to ladies over 30. Don’t worry just go along and have fun and remember most older folk just look older on the outside but were all young at heart.


    SGG
     
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    community is an important thing, we as humans require it to live happy lives. What would it hurt to go and possibly make new friends. If they dont accept you maybe it wasn't the right group for you ether way.
     
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    i would say give it a shot. if they reject you based on their rule then it is, most likely, not because of you personally. some groups are very tight on the rules while others post ones like that to keep the really young from taking over their social group.