I did it! He was much better than expected and even tho hes struggling hes supportive. I had a huge panic attack and we both cried. Hes going to stay with my brother which meant telling my brothers and sisters with strict instruction not to tell mum yet. I cant deal with her too atm. I feel exhausted but better.
Good for you! I'm on the verge of doing this myself and currently tripping all over this intense urge to just spit it out, but at the same time, fearing that if I don't handle it JUST RIGHT I'll destroy the fragile new peace we've managed to attain in our interactions. I just so want that same sense of relief I detect in your writing. Can only imagine how good it feels. Congrats!!!