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Discussion in 'LGBT Later in Life' started by CyclingFan, Sep 27, 2014.

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  1. CyclingFan

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    What it says. :slight_smile: (!)
     
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    Congrats! :icon_bigg
     
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    Congratulations!:slight_smile: I am really happy for you!
     
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    Nice to hear XD
     
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    It was fun. We played safe.
     
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    great news. happy for you
     
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    Yeah! (!)
     
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    Good for you! If there were any lingering doubts, hope they are removed.
     
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    Congratulations, that's really lovely news and gives me hope for the future. Molly xx
     
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    Congrats, "eagle". :icon_wink Wish to fly at least half that high!
     
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    Congratulations, hope your experience was everything and more than you may have imagined or wished for and the first of many, and hopefully regular, fun times.

    SGG
     
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    Soar, sparrow, soar. :slight_smile:

    Thank you

    ---------- Post added 28th Sep 2014 at 06:20 AM ----------
    I don't think I want to have sex with this guy again, and I can't say for sure I'll never want to have sex with a woman again, but I want to have sex (and maybe more) with another guy.

    Nice guy too, just not for me. Good job, 2 kids, married over 20 years before....one of you guys should be all over this. He seems like someone's "good catch". :slight_smile:
     
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    *highfive*
     
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    CF I'm glad you had a great experience and your last post suggests you forming an opinion on some preferences... good on you!
     
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    I had a dream last night. There was a bird trapped in tree branches. I set it free. It soared high in the sky at first, then it started falling quickly and ended up stuck to the ground by its long beak like a javelin. :lol:
     
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    The only difference between flying and falling is the lack of hitting the ground if you're flying. :slight_smile:

    So, hopefully, I'm flying. Really, it feels more like that and I feel more in control, so we are going to try that for now.

    And maybe I'll just fly so high that javelins can't get me. :lol:
     
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    It depends on where the javelin hits you. Lol.

    Seriously, congratulations. I really never felt I had to do it with a guy in order to confirm in my own mind that I was gay, but what it DID confirm was how ridiculously NOT straight I truly was. I had really never realized just how desperately I was working at proving myself before, or how much better it would feel to be open and comfortable about what I was doing. What a difference!
     
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    Congrats CyclingFan! If you don't mind me asking, how did you meet? Who made the first move? How did it compare to your expectations?
     
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    Pretty much exactly this! It really was a 'yeah, you are not straight!!' Feeling.

    I didn't feel exactly like I needed to prove it to myself either, but I was hoping to try it soon. I think it will be better the next time and I have so better ideas about what i like/don't like. Also, I think it'll be even easier to be myself now.

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    At a gay bar. He recognized me from a profile on one of the dating sites. He said that he thought I was cute but that I'd had at the time put up that I was separating, which he wasn't too interested in. I did later see that he had visited my profile like a month and a half ago. He made all the first moves, which was great, actually. I don't even know that he's exactly my type. He did have really nice, kind eyes which made me feel safe. I'm glad I was correct there. Really cuddly.

    There are several things that just didn't click, so like i mentioned earlier I don't think theres anything there long term, but I think we had some fun. I was nervous, and I think I'll have less of that next time, so I can give myself over to just enjoying it. I know first times for louts of things are like that, at least for me. It took away from some of the passion, but again, I think that's to be expected. He was totally cool about taking it kinda slow.
     
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    CF that sounds really great. i only hope that my first time is that good.:icon_bigg
     
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