I came out to myself and my wife last week that I'm bi. I had known for 6 years that I like men's junk, but I finally admitted that Im bi, and now I think about men and sex all the time. This happen to anyone else? If so, when does it slow down?
Hi, Ummm... who says the train has arrived at destination? Sometimes "bi" is simply a weigh station. Enjoy the journey as we don't have Star Trek transporters yet. Tom
Hey, You knew for six years. You sought permission two weeks ago... All I am saying is things take time. If the experts are correct and unaccepted, unacknowledged, denied sexuality results in arrested development your bisexual developnent just resumed. That could make you 15 years old sexually. Journey just starting. I assume life experience puts you on bullet train though. Teens lack life experience and it slows then down. Tom
Thanks for the responses, guys! I guess I'll just take it one day at a time. I'm hoping this website helps. I'm still very new to all of this stuff, but I like it so much!
CubbieBlue , I feel ya I too just came out to my self and the family it is a roller coaster of a ride and I dont know if I like it or not but hang in there buddy I have been told it will get better I am going to ride things out myself
50 years old, 23 years involved with only 1 person, only once cheated on her 6-8 weeks ago. Never stopped me from looking, fantasizing, self-relieving my various needs with various toys to various porn... There are days where I'm as horny as a teenager, and as hard as one, days where I'm way to busy running my life to notice.
Hi CubbieBlue, As you know from our posts elsewhere, I'm also newly out to myself and husband. I think that the coming out, not just the realization, frees us to express our sexuality to the fullest. That's a good thing! Enjoy it! Be you! Also, don't let the word "bi" become a label. It's great as a framework in which to explore your identity, but ultimately shouldn't define you, as there are so many different ways to be "bi". Keep exploring yourself and your sexuality, and try not to put any restraints on it -- you've already done that in the past. Now that you're out, be free and enjoy the ride Right there with you.
Many of us turned into horny teenagers once we came out. (I wasn't that far off from being a horny teenager at the time, but even then, the difference was pretty noticeable.) Just enjoy the trip. It'll slow down eventually. A bit. Sort of. Lex
