Hi, This is sort of an open suggestion to EC staff... I KNOW how well I relate to gay men who married woman and then came out of it. My best friend in the real world is such a man. We can speak in emotional shorthand. I do not need to explain every nuance, he lived it, he understands. With that in mind I suspect me finding more real world friends, possibly even relationships will be with such a man. (once hetero married gay). The same for most every EC scenario. Is there some way EC could create an "opt in" for full members to meet other like minded full members who are local to them? Bring EC minded people together in the real world? Allow opted in full members to find other local members...? Start local groups, find lical friends who understand...? Just a suggestion... there is the technology... even if it was a pass off to an EC subset...
