I'm an older lesbian. Over 50. I was in a long-term relationship for 20 years that ended a few years ago. Since then, I've been struggling. I really don't "fit" in the local lesbian community. Tried some online dating. It didn't work for me. And since October, I've been head over heels in love with a new female coworker who is straight, of course. Thought I'd come here to talk about this and other things. Thanks for "listening."
It doesn't matter if you feel you don't fit in with your local Lesbian community because you'll definately fit in with everyone here at EC!