How is it when it come to knowing if someone like you as a friend or more. Am 40 and still have meet anyone. is it me or have I missrd opportunity?? Advice greatly needed to this new area if my life.:help:
The only thing I can suggest is go to places where other gay people are, IE gay clubs, LGBT groups, that sort of thing. Have you only recently realised your gay?
No I've know since I was bout seven when a teacher saud it was very bad to play kiss chase and kiss the girls ---------- Post added 25th Apr 2015 at 12:59 AM ---------- Thanks for advice. Am in a lgbt choir. no luck with the ladies there.lol
I just think some of us a destined to be a bit unlucky when it comes to relationships. Some people seem to be fighting them off, others just dont seem to get any luck.
Hi I've had to put the idea of a relationship from a "have to have" to a "nice to have", which is probably a healthier way for me to think about it at least. Being in one can be great, of course, but for me I was allowing the idea of having one dictate my happiness. There's stuff that's just easier to do when you just have to think about yourself. Hobbies to pursue, free time to do whatever interests you. Personally, I find someone who is out there living like that to be interesting and attractive. Are there social events or group activites that you'd enjoy? A large city like London surely has a variety of gay clubs (not in the night club sense). Like for me, looks like someone is restarting a gay cycling club, which should be a great way for me to meet people with a common interest and who might be interested in a relationship.
It's totally not a missed opportunity and honestly I've given this so much thought with my previous crush lol.. The best way you can tell if someone likes you is to a) flirt with them and see how they respond aka make it obvious compliment them etc. , ask them to hang out b) flat out ask them whatever you do never OVERANALYZE, it just causes a lot of stress
Thanks for advice. Your right. I think because I have no experience as such you become obsessed. So I think from now on am going to take a different approach and stop feeling sorry for mysrlf that no one likes me. And take a step back. Bring back the old me. thanks. Maybe when am able to add contacts I can add you... (*hug*) ---------- Post added 25th Apr 2015 at 08:30 PM ---------- Thank ya overanalyze is really not good I learn that one...lol... (*hug*)
