I just joined an online dating site for the first time in my life. I know it may take a while, but hoping I can meet someone. I'm really tired of living alone and going out to dinner by myself.
I'm already messaging with a local guy from the dating site. Don't worry, I'll be safe. I know it doesn't say it in my profile, but I'm 51.
Dating sites are a both good and not so good. Just remember to go into this world with your eyes wide open and a close watch on your heart. Best of luck to you.
You might also think about joining some gay social groups, e.g., a book club, a musical group, a theater club, a seniors group (many seniors groups have members who are considerably younger than you might think). Or volunteer — there are plenty of opportunities to serve gay-oriented groups and causes, and you will certainly meet other, like-minded people.
Just to pile on here, as the saying goes, don't put all your eggs into one basket. Spread yourself out. Yes, dating sites do work. But I am sure you may find it rewarding and frustrating all at the same time where I have had both previous success and frustrations all the same. Good luck!
I know what you're saying about putting all my eggs in one basket. So far nobody else has contacted me, but I'll give it time. I asked him if my having MS bothered him and was told no, because he has a disability too. I was sorry to hear that, but I think it makes his understanding of what I deal with a lot better.
