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Discussion in 'LGBT Later in Life' started by confusedlost, Jun 11, 2015.

  1. confusedlost

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    22 m gay? But I love watching lesbian porn can't get off to anything else is it because I've blocked myself from getting off to men and over specialized women?

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    *sexualize

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    Come on you guys I'm not a troll in serious
     
  2. guitar

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    ...I don't think I follow.

    Just because you're gay or in denial, or whatever you label yourself as, doesn't mean there's some law that you can't be attracted to the opposite sex in certain ways. Outside of someone who's a Kinsey 0 or 6, most people have at least a bit of attraction to both sexes, even if they never want to act on it. It's perfectly normal, and well, human.

    There are days when I'm not the least attracted to women and other days when I'll see a good looking girl and go "wow, she's hot." That's just how I am. Listen to your inner desires and what you're really attracted to. Don't be tied down by some definition of what your sexuality is. Humans aren't like that. Some are, most aren't.

    Also, I would probably take a break from the porn. Like anything, moderation is the key. Maybe that will rekindle your interested in men? Or maybe it will confirm a side of you that never knew before... perhaps that you're bi or mostly straight?
     
  3. YeahpIdk

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    Well, I love lesbian porn too... but I'm bi, so...

    Alright. Supposing you're not a troll, I'm going to use the, "The Kids Are All Right," example. Some lesbians love watching male on male porn - but obviously don't want/like having sex with males. You might just like the intimacy of girl on girl. It's a lot more sensual, and there's more touching. Plus it's just freaking hot.

    I also recently read an article in New York mag about human sexuality and how, through research, they've come to find that most humans get off on watching hetero and homo sexual porn in the same manner, no matter how they identify.

    Sex is sex. If it appeals to you and the people seem like they're enjoying themselves in a state that you find you'd enjoy yourself (having sex), most likely you can get off to it. Maybe try to find what it is that you like about watching girl on girl. Is it the extra touching? I really wouldn't worry about it. If you start analyzing your sexuality based on porn, you're gonna make yourself crazy because there's a lot of weird shit out there. Some people like watching people take a dump on each other and get off to that -- I think you're okay.