Now that I've blown the lid off my sexuality, I'm getting crazy crushes left right and centre. All women. TV show actors, random singers at bars, people I work with. It's like I'm 18 and single. I seriously haven't had crushes like this in years. It's both fun and frustrating at the same time. Anyone with me on this?
Yes, me too As you say, women from all over the place, people I see in the street, bars, work Yesterday when I was out for lunch with a coworker who I really do have a crush on for a few weeks now and I think I was flirting with her apparently pretty obviously ( except for her it's not obvious:icon_sad, a girls started kind of insistently looking and smiling at me. This has never happened to me before, like this. So yeah, I thought I'm going crazy, but good to know it's not only me who this is happening to I mean not the going crazy part, but the crushes.
Yup! Same here! When I was out at the gay club last weekend there was a girl that I was totally smiling at and she was smiling back...fun.
Nice change from feeling cold and nonrespondant for so long, right? and for me it didn't task too long for me to start feeling in control of these 'crushes' enough to not be distracted by them
it's awesome how coming out opens a whole new world of possibility. like you've hit puberty...again. enjoy the ride.
In a word: yup. It's kind of embarrassing! I have to keep reminding myself to look in their eyes haha.
Thanks for this post. I recently began taking steps to come out and explore my homosexual side. I am really crushing on this guy I have hung out with/gone out with 3 times. I feel more vulnerable and I like how I feel at times and not at others because I feel a little imbalanced. In any case, I have never been with a guy, only females. Neither of us have made any moves, we've only hugged, but I was super aroused just by being around him. I think he is, but I don't know if he is into me as well. Ahhh, any advice? I guess I should just make a move! I also fully intend to tell him I have never been with a guy, of course. I usually prefer face to face for nearly everything, but I am tempted to just message/email him my feelings. What do you fine people think?
I've come out to only a few people, though crushing on or fantasies about women are nothing knew to me.
