Hello, 52 y/o guy here been married for over 30 years and have struggled for many years over my sexuality. Am I gay, bi or what? My wife does know of my thoughts and it has now come to a point in all fairness ot her that I must make a decision. Be in the marriage 100% or end it. My experience primarily has been in my teens and early 20's and I find as I get older the draw to being gay and with men is getting stronger and I cannot suppress it anymore. Just looking for others who have or are experiencing the same thing I know I am not alone. If I choose to move on I completely destroy someones life who I still love dearly and may end up being a lonely guy or maybe I find myself and a true sense of happiness. The toughest decision I have ever had to make, and I know I only have one chance. Any honest thoughts or advice no matter which side. Thanks in advance, DC
