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Discussion in 'LGBT Later in Life' started by sdsfguy, Oct 22, 2015.

  1. sdsfguy

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    Hello all! You all may remember me from about a year back or so. I was the one who fell for my workout partner when he gave me a kiss after a nice dinner at his place. This gave me great confusion as I was married at the time and wanted to honor my wife but had strong feelings for him. He waited patiently for me as we had no other physical contact. Well, you may remember that I came out to my wife and she was hurt and confused. My wife and I divorced and my wonderful friend gave me space. The divorce has been final for a bit now, and my friend and I began seeing each other, though not rushing things physically. He was so patient and faithfully waited for me, and was so sensitive to my needs! Anyway, I finally realized I could give myself to him completely and last week we had a wonderful night of lovemaking and intimacy that I had never experienced on any level. This was my first time I had been intimate with another man AND IT FELT SO RIGHT!!! I have never been so happy and I feel we have melted into one and I am finally complete after so many years of denial. My God, I never want to leave his embrace! Sorry for the gushiness, but I have never been so happy! And I have ALL OF YOU to thank! Thank you, Thank you, Thank you!!
     
  2. bi2me

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    I'm so glad it is all working out for you! (*hug*)
     
  3. Jamie1975

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    Well done buddy.

    Let this show that there is hope, for all of us

    xxx
     
  4. Chicagoblue

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    Wow. Fairly tale. I'm getting tingly.
     
  5. Shadowsylke

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    Oh, that's so wonderful! What a touching story! And how amazing that he waited for you all that time. He sounds like a special guy. Enjoy it all, and I'm happy for you! (*hug*)
     
  6. 50ishandout

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    Congratulations. Glad you have happiness. That's what life should be about.
     
  7. SnowshoeGeek

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    Oh, beautiful!!! Yay!!!

    (&&&)​
     
  8. Mocha

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    That's amazing! You sound so happy xx
     
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    Even though I was not active on EC last year, your story is both touching and inspiring. Please don't apologize, enjoy every moment of the gushiness. J
     
  10. looking for me

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    excellent, gives the rest of us hope,:thumbsup: happy for you(*hug*)