Hi All, It's been a long time since i've posted. A couple of years probably. I wanted to write today to tell all of you who are struggling with your orientation, coming out, ending straight marriages/relationships, etc., that IT GETS BETTER! I promise. Three years ago I realized/accepted that I was gay. I told my husband. A few months later we officially separated. I was terrified. Even though people were supportive, leaving my husband, telling my kids we were divorcing, living on my own, etc was soooooo scary! But here I am now. I am so happy. I have zero regrets. Being free, open, authentic, is such a gift. I can't believe I was ever closeted. My romantic/sexual relationships are fulfilling in a way I never realized was possible. After years of denial and shame, I am so thankful for the gift that is my orientation and sexuality. I know it is difficult. I know it can be lonely, overwhelming, depressing, and scary. But muster up your courage. Stay the course. Be true to yourself. Love and encouragement to you all!
Thank you for this. It is encouraging to know that others have reached the other side and are happier because of it.
Wow! What an amazing update! Thank you for sharing it! I congratulate you on your courage and honesty!
Hey Ohana! I remember you, and yes indeed I will second you on the wonderful fact that it does indeed ger better, much, much better! Thank you so much for giving us a shout from the other side!
Ohana, Thanks for Sharing! I am curious, was there any one moment or event which made you realize "I have arrived"?
I so relate to you, Ohana! My experience was very similar to yours. Leaving my marriage was the hardest thing I've ever done, but also the best. I feel more real now, and more at peace with myself. I agree with you that it does indeed get better!
So happy for you! How was your experience finding dates? Did you join groups/social events? If this happened to me I would not know where to even look.
