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I think my friend might be queer

Discussion in 'LGBT Later in Life' started by MayaBee, Nov 22, 2015.

  1. MayaBee

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    So as the title already says, I think my friend might be queer. She talks about LGBT alot(like me haha) and really likes to hold hands or hug, but only with girls, I have never really seen her do that with a male friend. Also, this may not be a reason for her to be queer, but she is kind of a tomboy, like, she doesnt like dresses and buys 50% of her clothes in the boys section.


    So what do you think? Is she queer?
     
  2. bi2me

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    Could be... the only way to know is to ask. Are you interested in her as more than a friend? Are you ready to be out to her? If you ask, you pretty much have to be ready to come out to her.

    If you are going to a queer event, you could invite her to go with... she might tell you if she isn't queer at that point, but if it's an event allies could go to, you could take her anyway.
     
  3. CapColors

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    Waht bi2me said. :slight_smile: