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Feeling The Gays

Discussion in 'LGBT Later in Life' started by YeahpIdk, Dec 15, 2015.

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  1. YeahpIdk

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    Today I'm feeling extra gay - loving the word lesbian. Like I could just post it on any social media page of mine without hesitation or care...if only I wasn't hesitant or cared. Does this ever happen to you? Feeling gay, and pretty damn fine and happy about it. Like, I like hot chicks and want to be with an awesomely smart hot chick. And it just blocks every bad thought out.

    Disclaimer: I'm sick and on steroids right now, so might be high. But I am feeling very pro lady today.
     
    #1 YeahpIdk, Dec 15, 2015
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    Go with the flow. I'm feeling very gay too. Having coffee with a gay buddy tomorrow.
     
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    Gay high five, Chicagoblue!
     
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    I get that sometimes. Unfortunately it only lasts for a few minutes. Then, it´s back to reality... :/

    I usually imagine myself leaving my country, moving to the USA where nobody knows me and starting a new life there.
     
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    Sometimes I feel quite ashamed. Dear me, I might/should be Bisexual at least to cover up the gayness.

    Other times, not so much. *shrug*

    Fuck this. I'm gay and I love hot men.
     
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    I feel like i get excited and feel like I know myself, and then I really think about it and get freaked out for a little. That's starting to go away, though. There are parts of it that LOOK funny in my head, but so many parts that FEEL right. It's crazy. Sometimes I look at guys or people in relationships with guys and there's a part of me that doesn't like it and smiles about being a lesbian and thinking about being with a woman. I don't know what that is. I can't wait to be in a relationship with a woman, honestly.

    And starting a new life could be fun, but you shouldn't feel like you have to! Just be you!

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    Right on with the "Fuck this"! Hot men can be hot. :icon_wink
     
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    The gaydar. It's working.
     
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    Yesterday, I just got out of the shower and was standing in front of the mirror. A warm feeling came over me and I dropped my towel to the floor. I stretched my arms up high. Put my hands behind my head. Then , looking myself in the eye, said, "I love being gay." After all those years of hiding and denial, it just felt so great to say that. I wasn't even thinking about it. It just came out. I felt warm. Happy. Free. Gay. No, I felt especially gay. Sometime today, I hope you do too!
     
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    Drove out to give my girlfriend a kiss goodnight again last night.

    I'm feeling super tired...

    ...and super SUPER gay!!! :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes:ride:
     
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    here comes the u haul <--- that's supposed to be caps locked. Imagine me screaming it since something's not working.
     
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    Mellie, that is so great! Been following your adventure. Maybe we should call you Super Girl! Or how about Super GAY Girl!?!
     
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    I came out as bi to my support group the other day and one of the women in the group actually told me this joke. I had heard it before, but thought it was too funny that she told me! :lol:

    Can I join in the feeling amazed at actually being who I am, even though I'm bi? Loving, absolutely adoring being comfortable with my girlfriend - first one ever. I don't care who knows, I'd shout it from the rooftops. It's incredibly freeing!
     
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    Haha! Maybe if I didn't have two kids. They are definitely keeping me grounded.

    I was actually kind of surprised to see that you were wearing "lesbian" comfortably, at least temporarily. The ups and downs get a little insane, don't they? Still feeling the gayness?

    I've actually had trouble with the word "lesbian." Sounds too...I don't know...medical? I'm just recently able to say it without cringing. Maybe you should take advantage of this--LGBT meet-ups? You're trying it on, now bring it out...
     
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    After the day I've had, I'm more sure than ever that I am gay. It feels absolutely right, and not something I could give up on.
     
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    What are hot men?


    ^^^ that's how gay I feel on my gayest days!

    Seriously though. What are hot men? :slight_smile: hehehe

    Yay Patagonia! :icon_bigg
     
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    Go Gay! Such a great feeling of authentication. Proud of you all - J
     
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    Oh, so she's your girlfriend now, huh? :icon_wink
     
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    I'm wearing my rainbow infinity scarf today, so it must just be something in the air. (Or something about the Christmas season that gives such a generally straight vibe that I feel a need to compensate.)

    And Sorrel? Hot guys are guys who make me go weak in the knees. Yes, you read that correctly: *I* am the one who determines whether a guy is not or not. I was given this responsibility by a hooded monk of ambiguous order (not to mention gender) about 3 years ago. He came to me in my sleep, and told me that the Lord had made me bisexual for a reason (I wasn't about the fight him over my spirituality); apparently, since I'm not actually sleeping with guys, the reason I'm bisexual is so I can be the official judge of which guys are hot and which aren't I've wondered since if this is a lifelong position, or just a gig for a few years (the pay is minimal...meaning nothing).

    So yeah...there aren't too terribly many...but some...wowyeah.
     
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    She's a friend. And she's a girl.

    Added bonus: she's hot and likes to make out with me.
     
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