My humanities teacher taught us "know it all college kids" that you cant choose life's situations but you can choose how you react to them. Of course being a 21 year old know it all kid, I thought the professor was stoned or something. Now I know he was right and I was wrong. So I can let my sexuality reality thing bring me down or I can come out swinging.
"Come out swinging" .... ooooh, the metaphors and double-entendres I could throw at that phrase... but I won't because I was reared right
I wish I took that class. That's good advice. In a pefect world this forum wouldn't exist and everybody could be themselves without fear.