I have a thread about my situation but here's a summary. I'm 28 years old and married with a man and i have been thinking that i'm bi sexual about 10 years. Recently i have only been interested in women and i'm starting to think that maybe i'm a lesbian. But i definitely am sure that i like women. I have been together with my man ages and haven't really dated. My husband knows that i'm quite confused about my sexuality at the moment and he has given me a permission to experiment with women outside our marriage. But now i don't really know how to do that. Because i'm not sure yet where this all goes i don't want to come out of the closet yet. I live in a relatively small city and although there is some lgbt meetings going on i don't want to go there. I suspect that there are few gay people in my work circle so i would risk getting out of a closet too soon. So my question is, how can i hook up with someone? As i'm still married also i don't want anyone getting wrong ideas. And i have never been with a woman either so first time is probably gonna be somewhat awkward. Suggestions anyone?
Well first of all, I don't think you need to experiment - If you're confident that you are attracted to women, I don't think there is a need, believe in yourself! As for hooking up with someone, there are many dating apps & websites where you can meet other lesbians in your area. Good luck!
Have you thought about lookingfor meetups? There may be some that are made for lesbian/bi women in your area.
