Just started a new job and I was introduced to the most beautiful lesbian that I've ever seen. We've been giving each other the silent stare for a couple of months now without saying a word to each other. Today she came right up to where I was sitting and stood there pretending to read an article. She then proceeded to have a loud open conversation with one of her peers about being gay, Donald Trump etc, etc. I was extremely nervous but I remained silent during the entire exchange. We ran into each other in the bathroom, washed our hands next to each other but said nothing. Yet still every time I'm somewhere she appears and just watches me. Punch line? I found out today that she's been married to her partner for a few years. What do you make of this? I'm still in the closet however, I'm confused about this chick...
Maybe it's coming to an end with her partner and she's giving you the hint that she likes women and is interested. Maybe you could drop some hints that you are lesbian maybe mention a female celebrity you find attractive or something about gay rights. Sounds like she's interested in you though you need to get talking to her first.
Thanks for the feedback; I think that I will drop a hint and see how she responds. The attraction is strong and I can't shake it...
Start by getting to know her, Becoming her friend first you can still drop hints though see what she does. Sometimes attraction is strong thing and can draw people to each other when they least expect it. Keep us updated
She might just be having an off day give it time see how she is next time you see her, it's always best to have a friend even if she's not interested
I would give it one more try. Just strike up a conversation. Her intention may be friendship...who knows? If you feel you're getting the cold shoulder again, just move on.
