Am I on the right track? It's always been that I've only had positive feelings regarding her (and trying to get over her for some time). Her and I were not close at all, and unfortunately for me I fell for my first girl crush, unreciprocated. So, recently when I see her I don't have as much " she is so amazing and nearly perfect" thought.. It is more like resentment mixed with clarity of realization: "She made me feel like sh..t so many times(unintentionally and maybe sometimes intentionally)" and "I deserve a LOT better than this" from anyone, be it acquaintance or a friend. I was expecting to arrive to more neutral state of mind to finally be over her.. How do I get rid of these emotions??
Well, it's probably not what you want to hear, but it's usually just a matter of time, and sometimes it takes longer than expected.
Yup. Just time and until you find something else to fill that space. It's been a year since me and mine spoke. Almost a year and a half since I told her my feelings. And over two years since I met her. I still think about her semi often. But she goes away more and more with time.
