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Really? He said that to me!

Discussion in 'LGBT Later in Life' started by Green251, May 23, 2016.

  1. Green251

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    So, there is this guy at work. We are friends. My Dr put me on a new med recently. Made me high as a kite! During this, my guy friend learned I was gay. Oops. I really didn't want people to know that!, at least at work Anyway, recently, he said that me liking girls is my fetish... Really, can gay be a fetish? It made me feel like who I was as a person was trivialized. Plus the common comments oh I could turn her straight. Or your husband can't show you a good time like me. I've heard comments like that from this major christian guy too. He's all high and mighty but one day lesbians came the subject. He was all I could make her straight with a big grin on his face. If he even knew I was!
    Just wanted to put that out there.
     
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    She's clearly delusional, hardly has any contact with the "real", "actual" world and is blissfully ignorant. That's all I can say. Having said that I think you should ignore everything she said and move on. The less attention and time you pay to people like that and thinking about what they said, the better. You deserve better. (*hug*)
     
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    Sounds like a straight up narcissistic bitch. If he asks about turning you straight again, politely decline and ask him if he has any hot sisters.
     
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    Sounds like these people have only learned about lesbians from watching porn made for straight people. :-/ So dumb.
     
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    When would you like for me to come kick his ass. That has nothing to do with him being a supposed Christian, that has everything to do with him thinking he is all that. I am serious, let me know and I will come make a little less confident in himself