so my son was talking to his mom, my ex, on friday. and he let it slip that i was Bi, he figured she knew since i put it on facebook a couple hours before i blocked her and her mother. she was not impressed. he told me and apologized for outing me, i was a bit taken aback then thought F* it im out now anyway. so i guess the next meeting with the lawyers is going to be memorable. wish me luck on that front, haha.
Hun, I'm sorry. That's unfortunate. Do you feel some sense of relief that it's out there? I'm sure that's not the way you wanted it to happen.
thanks. yes it's unfortunate but i feel worst for him since he felt bad. it's out there, i put it on FB afterall, and after some reflection i realized that i didnt care if she knows or not, it wont change things or interfer with me actually dating etc. or who i am now as opposed to who i was 3+years ago.
Are you afraid now that she knows you're bi, she will want you back? Lol Sorry. Can't help the bi pride right now!
hey Nick. nope, and even if she did the divorce was granted on the 3 of may. and i'm not ever going back in that snake pit. my son did say, last night, that she's pissed because "he knew all along that he's gay and lied to me...." son explained, repeatedly the difference but she doesn't listen... oh well.:icon_wink you are one lucky fella to have a wife that is as open and accepting as yours. give her a big hug today, she deserves it.
I couldn't help but joke around a bit about how she is missing out! Sorry that your son has to try and explain it to his mom and defend you. That sucks for him. But, it must feel great to have a son who stands up for his dad...that is a reflection on you. I suppose, in the end, your wife would find out anyway. Some people never let go and need an excuse to be angry because they like the feeling. Nothing you can do about that.
he's a great kid i have to say and thanks, i try to be the best for him. oh she would have found out eventually and yes she stays angry, i have a theory that she is happiest when she's miserable. but hey.
Thanks he gave me a 'worlds greatest dad' coffee mug years ago. i try every day to be that, and the worlds greatest mom as well. :icon_wink
I just realised I gendered you without meaning to I'm sorry, I need to check my reading comprehension.
no worries hun. I didn't even notice, TBH. even before I had an inkling of gender variance I was primary care giver to him, both mom and dad. :icon_wink so fret not lol
