Married female in her 30's here and so sexually frustrated. I asked my husband for more sex and he isn't obliging with my request. I think he's punishing me/being passive aggressive in response towards my attraction to women. I wonder, is this ever going to happen? Am I ever going to meet a woman I'm legitimately interested in? I'm not going to go crawling back to the woman I fell in love with last year...we were never physical but it felt like a relationship in terms of emotions. She text messaged me last week and it upset me so much that I changed my phone number. Porn only does so much. I only have a few videos I like which are tender and sensual. I've perused craigslist and plenty of fish, but that isn't how my attraction to women starts anyway. I have to get to know them and like them as a person first. I was watching a lesbian couple on YouTube, after my husband fell asleep. They are so cute together and seem so in love. It's sad, but I like to watch this kiss and hug. I want that. I'm so frustrated. In every way. :bang:
HI Cali, it's Sunny!! I totally get it in on every level possible except the wanting to have sex with my hubs part lol I fear I'll never be able to let her go and that's what scares the hell out of me more than anything. I don't even know where to start and don't know much about where to meet other like minded women...I only know that this is all new to me and I'm feeling so lost. Connection HAS to come first, period!
At least for me at first, my sexual frustration for a woman actually helped my sex life with my husband. I would imagine I was with her when I was with him. This worked for a little while until I began feeling like I was cheating on her. Then I stopped wanting to have sex with him at all. Gosh it got complicated.
OutofZCloset, How did that whole lifestyle shift go for you...I'm right in the middle of it right now and wonder where I go from here...I haven't been intimate with my husband for almost 10 yrs
Hi ladies! Just logged on. ---------- Post added 26th May 2016 at 10:02 PM ---------- WTH! I feel exactly this way now. Only I wasn't with her intimately ---------- Post added 26th May 2016 at 10:04 PM ---------- Sunny, I'm sorry, luv!!! Wow, that's a long time...10 years. ---------- Post added 26th May 2016 at 10:05 PM ---------- I'm in the middle of texting my first "woman." She's younger. I'm 34, she's 26 and experienced. Agh!! I don't know what to do. ---------- Post added 26th May 2016 at 10:17 PM ---------- I'm texting this woman. She's pretty, but in not feeling it. She's already talking about hooking up and it's scaring me off. Lol. ---------- Post added 26th May 2016 at 10:22 PM ---------- I told her I'm married and now she's not replying. Lmao. I suck at this I give up. Lol.
