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Had enough of moping!

Discussion in 'LGBT Later in Life' started by LostInDaydreams, Jun 16, 2016.

  1. LostInDaydreams

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    Recently I've been feeling low, frustrated and stuck, but moping around isn't going to get me anywhere, is it?

    Constantly contemplating my sexuality just makes me feel worse, because it reminds me of how far away I am from what I really want.

    So, time to switch focus, and start making changes to my situation (i.e. become financially independent). Every small step counts!

    I'm posting this, so that I can refer to it next week, when I'm moping around again. :icon_bigg
     
  2. Really

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    Good for you!

    Any positive plan and action counts as a step in the right direction. :thumbsup:
     
  3. RosePetals76

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    Keep moving forward. In every way. If you're questioning, date anyone that comes around that interests you without regard to gender. If nobody interests you, then so be it. You're right to focus on other things and just let the love thing happen.