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Yeah, I really need a woman in my life

Discussion in 'LGBT Later in Life' started by baristajedi, Jun 18, 2016.

  1. baristajedi

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    Guys, I'm starting to revert back to my one track mind... For a while all I could think about, like a damn teenager, is how much I want to sleep with every woman I see. Now that I'm finally feeling a little less down again, that's kind of where my mind is going again...

    My husband and I cannot seem to both be awake at the same time ever, except when we're with our daughter, so the best I can do, which I'm doing right now, is send him an email saying.... Ok let's stop talking about it and start doing the open marriage. I'm ready to be gay, or get my gay on, or however you want to say it...

    On another note, how will I manage to get a woman alone considering my place is out of the question?? I'm primarily looking for women who are also in open relationships. (It just makes more sense at this point). This is going to be a challenge.

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    Though I do have sort of an illicit place in mind, and there's always hotels, and I suppose her place might work? Ok clearly I'm thinking a lot about the sex aspect :icon_redf which probably won't come up for a while anyway.
     
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    OMG I was the same way for a few weeks there! I, too, thought "I'm like a damn horny teenager." I was aching for it.

    Thank God it's calmed down. Maybe you could start with a make-out sesh in a car? Lol. Totally teenager-like haha.
     
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    I would *love* a make out sesh with a girl anywhere :lol:

    Yup I'm a damn horny teenager...
     
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    I just got out of a similar stage, where I just wanted to fuck every reasonably good lucking guy I saw. lol

    I'm kinda back to not really caring about the gender.
     
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    Thank goodness it seems to wax and wane with me, as well. Couldn't take it for a few weeks there.
     
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    Don't start to put qualifications on it. Having someone else accommodate makes sense, but leave that as the only limitation. Just gives you another excuse not to proceed if otherwise.
     
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    I'm sure when you have someone you'll find a way. I know the feeling, though. The woman I just started seeing lives with her parents, and my kids are at my place. Someone is going to have to deal with people knowing the other stayed over
     
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    I'm not sure what you mean about qualifications - Are you talking about what I said about only dating others in open relationships? That was something I thought would be better at this point because I thought it would be unfair to date someone single given that I can't offer them much time or commitment right now as s married mom.

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    Yeah - it goes seem to wax and wane, but my version of that is that I seem to be in either horny or ultra horny mode...

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    I guess you're right, when it comes to it we'll figure out how to be alone. This is all imaginary at this point anyway. (But hopefully won't be imaginary much longer :icon_bigg)
     
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    I am also going through phases of "one track mind". I have just started dating someone, and she wants to take everything VERY slowly. Way too slowly for me. My mind knows that this is very sensible, and that I am lucky to have met such a caring person. However, my body keeps urging me to quit this relationship and find someone who I can have a physical relationship with practically instantaneously. I think I could do with starting a new thread for advice.
     
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    Shit. I'm back to being a horny teenager.
     
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    Hmmm.....interesting
     
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    Hahahaha! It's true :eusa_danc

    And frustrating..
     
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    ....and where does one go to find these "horny teenagers"?
     
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    I lived next to a girl who couldn't get enough for 2-3 years. Made things easy.....when we were both at that point. lol
     
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    In marriages that confine them lol
     
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    So you're saying all the horny lesbians are hiding in straight marriages? Lol... Ok now I know. :slight_smile:
     
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    I have been in this stage for a while, and finally seems to be slowing down. Pretty tough to find someone for sure.
     
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    Same here! I'm more thinking about women right now though, but I really want to have sex with the guy I just started dating(cause, ya know we're dating, even if it's not serious).....but we're taking it slow.
     
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    Man I can empathise with this! Totally just gone off sex with men, feels like a chore.
    I CRAVE being with a woman!!!
     
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    I was just wondering with everyone here who has been with men....Do you find that you have a higher sex drive now that you are thinking of women? I was with my husband for 8 years in my late teens to mid 20s and I had a low sex drive. As soon as I switched over to women at 26 now I have a high sex drive all the way up into my mid 40's. I'm still like a horny teenager when it comes to women. Although I am still attracted to men I really don't have any interest anymore in having sex with them.