So I've had another gay kiss. I can safely say theatre earth didn't move but the experience of a date and spending time with someone gay improved my mood. Does anyone else have any experience of first kisses feeling a little awkward and 'masculine'?
I've had tender kisses with both sexes...honestly, if they are given with the proper feeling, I sense absolutely no difference (except for the prickliness of his unshaven face...but I personally like that, lol!)
It went well generally. We spent most of the day and evening together. He's really keen but I'm a little reticent I think. Kiss was a little too much tongue for my liking not as tender as I would have liked... ---------- Post added 27th Jun 2016 at 09:35 AM ---------- Yes I've had kisses now from both sexes. Yeh I think it needed a little more tenderness, but he's recently out the closet after a long time so he's pretty eager - part of me can't help but make comparisons with my experiences with women but overall the experience improved my mood so it can't be a bad thing....
Wow - that's a nice, long date (!) Why are you reticent? Is there something about him, or are you uncomfortable expressing your sexuality this way? Being open and vulnerable with another guy can be quite scary, but holds the treasure you seek. I'd suggest that next time you have an opportunity to kiss him that you provide him feedback on what kind of kiss you are looking for. You can initiate the kiss and kiss him lovingly. When he inserts his tongue into your stomach, let him know you are looking for something a little more tender. I have to respectfully disagree with you GW. Tender kisses with guys are WAY better
My first gay kiss was kinda embarrassing. I really liked this guy and when we kissed after our first date my heart started beat hard....like REALLY hard. He noticed and put his hand on my chest and asked, "Is that your heart?!" I felt like a cartoon when they are kissed and the electricity shoots through their body.
