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New relationship

Discussion in 'LGBT Later in Life' started by RosePetals76, Jun 29, 2016.

  1. RosePetals76

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    I'm dating someone new. We've been out about 4 times, and I'm wanting to keep things moving forward. They're going slow, but good, right now. I feel like I'm struggling to get as deep with her as I'd like. How do I get into deeper conversations about emtions, sex, etc? I love those types of conversations, but I guess I don't usually lead into them. I know she's still closeted for the most part (except 1 or 2 friends), and hasn't been with a woman yet (I've been with 1). Us both being new to this kind of excites me, but I feel like we're both lacking the experience to push things forward. Hmmm....
     
  2. PlaidGlove

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    How? By letting the relationship and the trust needed develop at its own pace.

    Four dates is no time at all, man. Focus on having fun together! :-D
     
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    Oh, we are having fun!
     
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    Good! Then don't force the heavy stuff. :slight_smile:
     
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    I agree, let it unfold naturally. You'll get to the heavy stuff when it comes up naturally.