Hello, Today I came out to my husband... I was very difficult, but I do feel happier and relieved. I don't know what to do from here. I am so confused with every aspect of my life.We have a child together and currently live together. We agree that it will be better for me to stay in the home until I find my own place. I feel so guilty for hurting my husband.
Eab91, I'm so sorry you're going through this! Hugs to you, love! I'm sure the more experienced members can be of more assistance, as I just came out to my husband (as being bisexual) over this past weekend.
Thank you! It is very difficult to work up the courage to "come out" to anyone, so I am proud of you as well :eusa_clap
I can't imagine having to come out in a hetero marriage. That has to be very difficult. I admire your bravery as you search to discover your true self.
I hear you.I'm in the same situation. In a straight marriage, with a kid, looking for my own apartment. It's not easy dealing with guilt, but in the end, I think that being true to ourselves is the most important thing. And I think that our partners and children will benefit from that, too. It would feel wrong to stay with my husband. And I don't want my kid to find out in the future that I decided to live a lie. I send you a big hug!
Yes it seems we are in a very similar boat. I am also looking to find an apartment as well. I feel so much guilt for separating our family. And letting down my husband. He says he understands and wants me to be true to myself, but I know he is hurt.
