1. This site uses cookies. By continuing to use this site, you are agreeing to our use of cookies. Learn More.

HELP! Met someone what do I do next!

Discussion in 'LGBT Later in Life' started by sabrinaa, Aug 4, 2016.

  1. sabrinaa

    Regular Member

    Joined:
    Sep 13, 2015
    Messages:
    130
    Likes Received:
    38
    Location:
    usa
    Gender:
    Female
    Sexual Orientation:
    Lesbian
    Out Status:
    A few people
    I don't even know how this happened, but I found out someone who I had a little crush on, but never in a million years thought liked girls actually likes me!!

    I don't know what to do with this information!! I really like her!! What do I do? I have never felt this way before.

    Honestly, when I heard someone liked me, I was like "Oh NO! who is it this time? Who do I have to let down?" and I did NOT expect it to be her and I am just losing it right now. I'm pretty happy, but don't know what to do next. I don't want to screw this up. I really just can't even believe this is real life because I am deep in the closet and no one even knows I like women. I feel REALLY great right now! I really need some help though, what should I do with this information? What do I do next? I know that the news got back to her that I feel the same.
     
  2. FoxSong

    Full Member

    Joined:
    Dec 6, 2014
    Messages:
    130
    Likes Received:
    1
    Then you have the perfect situation :wink: What you do now is, contact her - ask her out on an actual DATE. And then proceed to romance her socks off :grin:
     
    #2 FoxSong, Aug 5, 2016
    Last edited: Aug 5, 2016
  3. RosePetals76

    Regular Member

    Joined:
    Jun 2, 2016
    Messages:
    475
    Likes Received:
    0
    Location:
    Illinois
    Gender:
    Female
    Sexual Orientation:
    Lesbian
    Out Status:
    Out to everyone
    Agreed. Asking her on a date would be the next step. Don't freak out, this is a good thing!
     
  4. prettypixie

    Regular Member

    Joined:
    Jul 20, 2016
    Messages:
    70
    Likes Received:
    0
    Location:
    Louisville
    Gender:
    Female
    Sexual Orientation:
    Bisexual
    Out Status:
    A few people
    Go for it and ask her out.
     
  5. sabrinaa

    Regular Member

    Joined:
    Sep 13, 2015
    Messages:
    130
    Likes Received:
    38
    Location:
    usa
    Gender:
    Female
    Sexual Orientation:
    Lesbian
    Out Status:
    A few people
    Thanks guys!!! AHHH I'm going to do it!! I have been struggling with figuring out my sexuality, but I have NEVER felt this way about any guy who liked me. I feel supper giddy and exited, but scared, but like I actually want to do something about this. Unlike when a guy asks me out I feel dread. This is a completely different feeling!!
     
  6. SHACH

    Full Member

    Joined:
    Sep 20, 2015
    Messages:
    949
    Likes Received:
    22
    Location:
    UK
    Gender:
    Female
    Gender Pronoun:
    She
    Sexual Orientation:
    Bisexual
    Out Status:
    All but family
    AAAAH this is awesome! That's so exciting, I'm geniunely smiling with glee for you. Go for it!
     
    #6 SHACH, Aug 5, 2016
    Last edited: Aug 5, 2016
  7. Angelbob

    Regular Member

    Joined:
    Jan 4, 2016
    Messages:
    13
    Likes Received:
    0
    Location:
    Travelling far and wide
    Gender:
    Female
    Awww exciting this is awesome
     
  8. Katchoo

    Regular Member

    Joined:
    Mar 22, 2016
    Messages:
    836
    Likes Received:
    7
    Location:
    Georgia, USA
    Gender:
    Genderqueer
    Gender Pronoun:
    They
    Sexual Orientation:
    Other
    Out Status:
    Out to everyone
    Yayyayyayyayyayyayyay!!!!!!