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Came out to my boyfriend

Discussion in 'LGBT Later in Life' started by Tinkerbell2016, Aug 23, 2016.

  1. Tinkerbell2016

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    Location:
    Glasgow
    Gender:
    Female
    Sexual Orientation:
    Lesbian
    Out Status:
    A few people
    Hello

    Ive recently come out to my boyfriend. Ive pushed my attraction to women to the back of my mind for too long now. After an abusive marriage, I've found a man who loves me completely. He is my best friend. I feel so torn and dont know what to do. He says he will stay my friend if we cant be together. Im scared to take a leap but i am not attracted to men.

    Has anyone else been here? Hes happy to date a lesbian but im not sure i can do this anymore. I feel like a fake. I don't want to hurt him which makes this harder.

    Any advice will be graciously accepted

    Thank you

    Xx