To those who've come out already... Was your first gay, sexual encounter all you'd hyped it up to be??! Please.feel free to scroll on by, and accept my apologies, if I'm being to nosey
I never hyped it up in my mind, I was just curious, and willing to just observe my reactions...I reacted...
I did not hype it up but it was more than I anticipate it to be and that was perhaps I was with someone who had been out for awhile and was very much experienced. What was so funny to me was that I had performed sexually with him the way I did with a woman but added more variations to what I was doing as well as putting more focus on how I would like to feel as opposed to him and what do you know...he thought I was really experienced and questioned me about how many guys I've been with.
It was just a twenty minute heavy make out session, but WOW. ummm Fireworks and all that, things I had only read about but had never experienced.
I think I kind of hyped it down. I always sort of assumed it would be sort of like straight sex had been for me. I'd had a fair amount of straight sex and it was nice, really nice... but not quite the whole shebang they make it out to be in the movies and the like. I just kind of figured that it was like that--I'm pretty sure plenty of people who aren't LGBT probably think that too. And then... it was just like in the movies and suddenly I knew what everyone was singing about--seriously a whole other magnitude, just a totally different thing which was every bit as good as people made it out to be... I never had straight sex again.
My first one was dyn-o-mite and it was such a surprise I never had any chance to hype it. It just happened and it couldn't have been better.