I've been out as gay since teens. Never very interested in bottoming. Topped a lot. After a long time being asexual my libido has returned and I find my self horny for anal sex. I love it. I found this out through anal play and going to a gay massage that provides happy ending. Well, I asked him to penetrate me and it was great. The second visit he was able to get deeper and there was a wonderful sensation that made me gasp. It was like another penetration. Was that the second sphincter? I didn't know what I was missing! I'm hoping to experience what I've read as the anal orgasm.(!)
With proper preparation, anal sex can be very enjoyable when you're on the receiving end. You probably gasped when your partner hit your prostrate.
Thanks for the note. I've read some how-to on prep. But nothing was written about sensations to expect. With the preps like cleaning, use doggy style to straighten the S curve and foreplay it was pain free a quickly was very pleasurable. You can teach an old dog new tricks!
In general, I enjoy anal penetration very much, but sometimes more so than others, and I'm not really sure what makes the difference. Size, angle, hardness, horniness — who knows? But sometimes when it hits the spot, I come without additional stimulation. It was not always this way. I never had any problem or pain being penetrated, right from the start (lucky, I guess), but I never really "got" it for the first year or two. Then, once I knew what to look for (feel, really), I was a much more enthusiastic bottom.
Thanks, Weston. The other thing I noticed is a increase of sensitivity in my anus area. A big increase which makes a very nice area for massage. Very tingly!
Being an exclusive bottom. Relaxation is the key. .. once you can relax enough to enjoy it... Yes it will depend on size arousal yada yada... once you have a prostrate orgasm .. it'll never be the same. Careful what you wish for... lol
i tried stimulating myself this way I immediately knew I wanted it more than anything. i used to wonder 'who would want that done to them" now I can't wait
I have never had such an orgasm. It's utterly incredible... Especially when you have an experienced "top" who knows what's going on & doesn't stop... that JERK... thought I was going to orgasm to death. :icon_bigg
This thread is turning x rated - at least in my mind Yes this is one thing that made me went from being 'oh no I am gay" to oh WOW I'm gay. I haven't 'done it' with a guy yet but even self stimulation and imagining a guy is a 100x more exciting than being with a woman.
LOL! :eusa_clap ---------- Post added 5th Nov 2016 at 06:14 PM ---------- Honestly tho.... If it's your first time. It's not going to be Earth shattering... It takes time & discipline... Good Luck!
