So my friend at work, we're really close, she's straight; we were chatting a few moments ago... For the third time she made a transphobic remark (third time in a matter of weeks). The first two times I subtly challenged her. This time I went all in. I said you know I have a lot of friends who are trans, and they're just people, what's wrong with being trans? This went on for a bit and I educated her on how to use pronouns properly, how she might understand if she spoke with a trans person and listened to their story, etc. She apologised, and said she should try to understand more, I was reallybhappy that I opened up her mind a bit. I didn't intend to take it further. Then after a little hesitation, I said, did you ever hear of the term genderqueer? Then I told her that she how's I identify my gender, and started opening up about my gender questions a little. She listened and responded with genuine interest. It feels really good being able to represent my truth. ---------- Post added 10th Jan 2017 at 06:03 AM ---------- *that's how I identify my gender
Congratulations baristajedi! That's really great! Keep educating her, if she's willing to listen. Most transphobia/homophobia/biphobia that I've encountered is based on ignorance. People who are educated on how sexuality and gender identity really work are often much more accepting.
wow, that shows the confidence that you have acquired in this journey my friend. (*hug*) so freaking proud of you.
That's awesome! I'm glad that she seems to want to understand now. A little education can go a long way
