Sorry to start another thread! There is part of me that feels I should give my current relationship another chance, and put some real effort into it. However, based comments my partner has made over the last week or so, I think he might have worked out what's wrong. He said that I've changed as a person over the last year, which about matches up to when I started questioning. So, if a conversation about our relationship comes up, do I be honest about questioning, or not mention it and say I want to give it another go? I find the prospect of telling him terrifying. I think I'll probably take the cowardly option anyway. I feel terrible that it's got to the point where he's potentially worked it out.
I have been in this place. I don't think it is helpful to conceal this stuff longer term, however painful or terrifying. I would be honest about your feelings. He knows something is wrong and will be further hurt by knowing he is being kept in the dark.
