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I want a younger girlfriend

Discussion in 'LGBT Later in Life' started by ifemme, Mar 13, 2017.

  1. ifemme

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    Have been asking myself what it is I really want from a same-sex union, and after all these years I feel like dating and having casual relationships with younger women is what I really want. I had kids 20 years ago and made the hetero mistakes that so many of us do when coming out, I wondered if I'd ever be comfortable admitting my desires to myself and going forward with it. Trouble is, I come from a small city and don't know where to meet femme lesbians in the 24 - 40 age group. (I'm a young-ish 39 myself).

    Any ideas? We don't have a strong lesbian base where I live. Currently without a car too but hoping to fix that soon :slight_smile:
     
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    Then I'd say the first move is to work on getting the car, and then working on getting somewhere where there IS a more vibrant lesbian scene. :slight_smile:

    Lex
     
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    I would consider moving also if that is your desire for casual relationships kind of life style. Because even if u do find one in a small town, and it would end. The same feeling will come back again.

    It can be quite a step, but mostly the fear of change is harder then actually doing it.
     
  4. just jane

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    i too feel the same, i am 27 year old female. there is not much lgbt where i am. i have been looking for older people as well. it is not easy.
     
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    ifemme hi,
    I've been married over 20 years always hidden my lesbian feelings. Never acted on them but I'm thinking the same way I'd like a lesbian encounter. I need to know, I too don't know how I'd go about it.
    Crazy to get to my age and feel this is something I need now.
    I hope you find what you're looking for x
     
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    Yes, I live in an area where I don't even know where to meet women. It's depressing. Stuck here for another couple of years at least, then I'm packing up and moving somewhere more accepting. I feel your pain.