Have been asking myself what it is I really want from a same-sex union, and after all these years I feel like dating and having casual relationships with younger women is what I really want. I had kids 20 years ago and made the hetero mistakes that so many of us do when coming out, I wondered if I'd ever be comfortable admitting my desires to myself and going forward with it. Trouble is, I come from a small city and don't know where to meet femme lesbians in the 24 - 40 age group. (I'm a young-ish 39 myself). Any ideas? We don't have a strong lesbian base where I live. Currently without a car too but hoping to fix that soon
Then I'd say the first move is to work on getting the car, and then working on getting somewhere where there IS a more vibrant lesbian scene. Lex
I would consider moving also if that is your desire for casual relationships kind of life style. Because even if u do find one in a small town, and it would end. The same feeling will come back again. It can be quite a step, but mostly the fear of change is harder then actually doing it.
i too feel the same, i am 27 year old female. there is not much lgbt where i am. i have been looking for older people as well. it is not easy.
ifemme hi, I've been married over 20 years always hidden my lesbian feelings. Never acted on them but I'm thinking the same way I'd like a lesbian encounter. I need to know, I too don't know how I'd go about it. Crazy to get to my age and feel this is something I need now. I hope you find what you're looking for x
Yes, I live in an area where I don't even know where to meet women. It's depressing. Stuck here for another couple of years at least, then I'm packing up and moving somewhere more accepting. I feel your pain.