I finally got together with a small group of gay men. I felt so relaxed, and I didn't have to hide anything. I somehow feel stronger.
Glad it went well. I felt that way when I went to my first gay women's gathering so I know what you mean.
it is nice being around people like you isn't it? I had the same feeling a couple nights ago when I went to a support meeting for trans people, it was nice to see old friends and just be one of the girls.
Hey that's awesome you went and enjoyed it! Are you normally comfortable in new situations like that? I imagine I'd be too nervous to go to such a group, but not really sure why. I know the people would be safe as far as being gay, but perhaps I fear still not fitting in and then I don't fit in the gay or straight world.
Thanks everyone for the support. It's good to know I have the support of everyone here. I Do ok in smaller "Meetup" type groups. But going to a bar or some other large group gathering, especially alone when I know nobody is terrifying. This weekend would be great for me to get out to a bar, as most of my friends that I hang out with will be out of town but I likely will not. As I would be too frozen in fear.
Good for you. I'm starting to wonder whether I need to look into something like that. It feels like a huge step off a cliff, though.
