My son has a 21 y/o cute boi, that comes over to the house all the time. I am bi/ and I would luv to do something with sons friend. How do I approach him?
Welcome to EC! I don't exactly know all of the details of this, but sounds like something you need to talk about with your son. He may be pretty upset that you are intervening sexually with his friend. I don't think it's healthy. Are you a single parent? Have you tried meeting men with more similarities than your son's friend?
I agree with Akatosh and think you might be entering dangerous territory by trying to pursue your sons friend. At a minimum you definitely need to discuss this with your son first, however I don't think it sounds like a good idea at all.
I think the relationship he has as a friend to your son makes that ethically problematic. I want for you to be actualized and enjoy your sexuality with other people, but I feel that there's probably a healthier way to do that. If he was just another 21 year-old guy out there, that'd be one thing, but he's a friend of your son.
Talk it over with your son or perhaps a close gay friend It seems like so many things could go wrong for all three of you
I'm sorry guy, I'm also older and your post just creeps me out. Let it go, find someone closer to your own age. You seem to have some issues that you need to deal with.:eek:
You recognize that this is almost certainly a really bad idea, and you minimize contact with him. Lex
Step away from the twink. At least that one.... Nothing wrong with a fantasy but leave it there giving the friendship with your son.
Nope. Don't do it. The consequences on the relationship with your son are not worth it. I'll be blunt, use (one of those hook ups we can't mention) on your phone -- find someone there who'll meet your needs.
Because he is your son's friend, I would not get involved. It could ruin your relationship with your son. It could also ruin the friendship between your son and his friend.
