I keep being told to do "research" on being a lesbian...etc. I don't know what that really means. Yes, I am sure some of it is just experimenting with a person, but I know that some people think there are other books, mediums, that are helpful. So my question is this... What books or websites have been the most helpful to you? What do you suggest someone should look at, read, participate in as they are going through this process? I really look forward to your answers.
Go to Meetup and find lesbian groups and start attending events that interest you. USA Meetup Groups - Meetup