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Grandma and college

Discussion in 'LGBT Later in Life' started by Zannan, May 5, 2013.

  1. Zannan

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    Sexual Orientation:
    Bisexual
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    I'm going to college out of state when I graduate, My grandma lives next door to it so to save money (because I need to save up for a house.) I'll live with her (this was discussed.) The thing is she's homophobic and transphobic. I don't want to have to live as a girl anymore. On my agender days "she, her, granddaughter" wouldn't be a problem but on my male days which I mostly have it'll cause problems. Howevevor, saving money is needed.And that's a easy way to do that. If she finds out she'll kick me out. I don't know what to do. I don't want to hide this any longer but I need my grandma's support during college. I'd like her support anyday. I wanna scream! :***:She made it very clear if I wasn't cisgendered she'd disown me.
     
  2. skiff

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    Don't take this the wrong way, but it will be a conflicting thought...

    With grandma's like that who needs enemies?

    What is more important to you, your mental health or buying a house?

    I don't think your grandma figures into that question at all.