I'm heading to the Panhandle of Oklahoma tomorrow for my oldest son's graduation. I wasn't out when I lived there because it was way too conservative and I didn't think I would have any friends who would be supportive. I didn't even seek a girlfriend. I'm out now, loud and proud. My usual soft butch self is even wearing a skirt, strappy sandals, and a sleeveless blouse. What is my point? I don't care what people think any more and I will NEVER go back into the closet. I am also finding out that I would have had some support while I lived there. Oh well.
It was a great visit! Wore a skirt and everything. The most proud moment was when my son's name was called for a very prestigious outstanding student award from his university. He, amongst other things (student body president, student senate, radio station manager, etc... - can you tell I'm a very proud single mama here?), started a GLBT student association in this very conservative area of Oklahoma. They mentioned that when they spoke of his accomplishments. I raised me fist high when they said that. He's gay BTW. (!)(!)(!)(!)(!)(!)
