Well, here's my five month update. I was dating a guy I met on-line for about four of those five months, but it fell apart in the last couple weeks; we just don't have enough in common, although I also wonder if he's a bit to busy to be having a relationship. I was surprised that he wanted to break it off, although it still hurt a bit. There's another guy interested in me I think I'll go out with for a bit (and I still have a crush on another guy, although he's sorta headed toward another relationship and I know better to try for that). I also realize I have to work more out outing myself--still too concerned about what others think, I guess; and I'm going to try to volunteer for my local pride celebration to try to expand my network. I still wish there were more volunteer opportunities around here, and I'll have to take another look.