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Discussion in 'Coming Out Stories' started by writeawaytheday, Jun 6, 2008.


  1. Ok so I just came out to my sister, who is my twin, last night, through a text, she was in the other room, but it just seemed easier.
    So anyway I was talking to her and I just said "If I told you something would you tell anyone" and she said no.
    Then I said "Ok, I want to tell you something I really do, it's just don't flip."
    She said "fine"
    So then i texted back "Ok this is really hard for me to tell you."
    she just typed "ok..."
    Then me with "I'm gay." easy and fast, I hit send.
    But see she didn't really have a reaction. At first she thought I was joking, which I get, because I joke around a lot. So when I convinced her I wasn't joking, she just said how do you know?
    That's it, she didn't even come out of her room to talk to me, I am just really confused.
    Is it "normal" to have no reaction???
    Anyway I am just really freaking out.:help:
     
  2. Trumpetplyer23

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    Some people just have a neutral reaction because they don't consider that to be something they should have a reaction about. Does that make any sense? I hope it does.

    When I came out to my best friend, she looked at me, to see if I was joking or not (we're famous comedians at my school) saw that I wasn't, and shrugged and said 'okay'. I came out to her by saying "I'm bisexual, Merry Christmas" (don't ask why, I still don't know) and we cracked a few jokes about how I told her. She didn't really have a reaction.

    I think your sister is okay with but didn't feel she needed to go in there and talk it out with you.
     
  3. okay thanks that helped a lot:icon_bigg
     
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    nice! and don't worry about it, it'll all turn out fine. at least she didn't flip out, right? :slight_smile:
    congrats on coming out.
     
  5. yahooooo

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    Wooo... well done on coming out :grin:
    Congrats!!
     
  6. Pepsi

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    Congrats, Im glad it went so well
     
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    Godd Job, I dislike it when they ask "How do u know your gay?" I really dont know how to answer.lol

    GOODD JOB!!Well done..
     
  8. yea i actually didn't know how to answer so I just said how do you know you're straight?
     
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    That's the best comeback because they look at you like :confused:.

    Gotta love making people confused.

    Keep us updated if your sister says anything to you about it.