Married brother has just come out

I would personally recommend just being there for him. From what I've read, I can see that he is emotionally sensitive right now and may potentially be worried about anyone else leaving him at this fragile state in his life. I wish the two of you the best.

 

Maybe surprise visit him. He is so fragile right now. He needs love and support best from blood but kinship will also do.

 

Well, for starters, you might want to point him here? The Later in Life section is filled with people who either have come out to their spouses, or are trying to determine the best way to do it. We've experienced spouses in denial, or angry, or hurt, or even accepting. There's an extremely supportive bunch of people here in a vast range of ages, who have a wide range of experiences to share and learn from.

Other than that, be there for him, keep in touch and let him talk. The fact that you're here speaks volumes about how much you care for him, and that's absolutely wonderful. You're doing a great job for him so far.

 

It's great that you are supporting him and I think Claudette's suggestion is a pretty good one. Although it's something you obviously can't just do at the spur of the moment, maybe you can plan a (surprise) visit to him at some point. That would likely speak for itself and show him that he definitely has someone there who isn't leaving his side.

 

I agree with choirboy point him the later in life section.

Tell him this part of his life is only temporary and if will be better in the future, and tell him gay or straight you love him and will never stop regardless. That's all you can do, actions speak louder than words too

 

I agree that you should point him here, to the Later in Life section. He'll be able to get support and advice from others going through the same things as him.