Thinking about Anal Stimulation...

What position are you doing it in? If you're not already, try lying on your back on a flat surface so you can pull your legs up. Or try reclining back on a large soft chair or something so your torso is partly up and you can pull your legs up. Either should let you stroke yourself with one hand while using the other to stimulate yourself south of the border. Start with one finger, probably your longest and then work up. Just relax, use lots of lube and take your time. Don't do it if there is time pressure such as your family getting home in half an hour or something.

Re hygiene, refer to the EC pages on prepping for anal sex. Basically the same thing. Re safety, make sure your nails are trimmed such that they aren't squared off with sharp edges. Manicure scissors are good for this. If you're clipping your nails square now and anyone asks about the change just say you nearly caught and tore a nail on something and want to avoid that risk.

You want to mainly stimulate your prostate. There may be diagrams on EC and there certainly are online. It's sort of behind where your penis is located. When you hit it, it sort of feels like you're about to cum or about to pee but also a feeling all its own. Most guys really like it, but not all do. You can also get some good sensations from playing with your rectum, I believe. To some degree, just let yourself explore and see what feels good (or really good). When something feels good, keep doing it.

Re when to stop. Ultimately, you can stimulate yourself until you cum. This may be just from anal stimulation or in combo with jerking off. Or you can stop before that and finish yourself off doing just stroking, or whatever. In my experience, doing different things can create different sensations, either leading up to cumming, or during cumming or both. You may decide that you like some particular act or combo of acts best and always to that or that it becomes part of your personal 'library' of masturbation methods and you decide what you want to do based on available time, circumstances, and what sort of experience you feel like having this time.

Hope this helps,

Todd

 

I'd like to say thanks, cause were both bisexual 13 and analy curious, so I didn't have to make this post.

 

just use lots of lube, it gets easier after a while

 

clean your hands/anything else before & after. use lotsa lube. be careful with fingernails/etc.. they collect dirt under them and you dont want to cut your anal passage with a dirty nail. try rubber gloves or a condom even if youre concerned.

start by massaging the outside rather than jamming it straight in, try to relax the muscles.

 

It is safe for any person who wants to do it as long as he or she uses lubrication. Keep in mind that you also should have trimmed nails because you can scratch the inner walls of the rectum, which can lead to infection. Also, when you do do fingering down there, remember that the prostate is only a fingers length down. Don't go too far, otherwise you will end up hurting yourself and won't get any pleasure from doing so. I recommend that you clean yourself down there before trying anything to avoid running into any fecal matter. This can be done by using the soap method or by douching (putting water up there to clean you out). I personally have to douche myself every time to avoid running into anything. When that is finished, I can then go onto fingering, although I prefer using a toy - it makes it easier and cleaner. There are several prostate stimulation websites that are safe to read, and free of pornography. So you can always look up how to properly 'milk' the prostate, especially when you are trying to do that and masturbate. It takes a lot of practice to get everything right, but when you do, it will be pleasureful and you won't regret doing it.

 

re douching etc... I would point you at this:

Empty Closets - Getting Clean for Anal Sex