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Size matters to me....

Discussion in 'Physical & Sexual Health' started by Brakmek, Jul 15, 2013.

  1. Brakmek

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    So, it's like this: I have watched porn and masturbated since I was 10 with and without friends (when with, we can never see each other, thank God for bunk-beds:icon_wink) and lately I've been feeling self-conscious about my penis:icon_redf. I know it being circumcised is a decision my parents made when I was born, so I don't care about that, but I feel like my penis is small:confused:. I've looked it up but never actually asked, and I was still unsure, so I measured (when fully erect, measure on the inside of curve, from base to tip of head, keeping contact with skin (btw mine curves upwards)) and it came out 7 inches long:icon_sad:. I feel like this is very small and I feel very ashamed at times:icon_redf. Will it grow more since I'm 14? Please help!:tears:

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    7 inches is substantially larger than average, particularly for someone 14. It may yet grow more, but you're already substantially larger than about 60% of the population.
     
  3. gavguy

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    That certainly isn't classed as small especially at your age, you still have many more years of growing to do including your one eyed trouser snake.
    Even if you think it's small this wouldn't mean that you wouldn't satisfy a partner, some people think that the larger it is the better the man you are and the better sex will be.
    Totally wrong, I would concentrate on enjoying exploring yourself further and don't worry how big it is.
     
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    Using porn stars as the baseline for measuring your penis is sort of like using professional basketball players as the baseline when measuring your height. A big part of the reason those guys are even there is because they are bigger than average.

    As has already been pointed out, you're actually already on the larger side of average. You may or may not get bigger as you get older, but you are perfectly capable of performing any act you are likely to want to perform with what you already have.

    Coming at this from another direction: I've been with guys of all different sizes since coming out. One of them was quite a bit bigger than you are (we never measured but let's say 8-9 inches since you provided a specific measurement). This was very impressive when I first saw it and maybe for the first few times we had sex. After that the novelty wore off and it also became apparent that he was really only interested in his own pleasure and didn't much care whether I had a good time or not. At which point his larger size really made no difference whatsoever.

    Don't worry about your size and be a considerate lover who cares about his partner having a good time during sex and you will find yourself as popular as you care to be when you finally get around to being sexually active.

    Todd
     
  5. Zaio

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    Your dick is already much larger than most guys. I believe the average was around 5.5-6, and yes your dick will continue to grow, but probably not much more.

    Porn stars job is to arouse you, so of course they have the perfect muscles and larger dicks. You shouldn't base your life off of pornos, sex isn't anything like in porn either.

    All the best.
     
  6. Dublin Boy

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    As the Average Male Erect penis is between 5.2 inches & 6.2 inches where do you think you fit, below average or above average?
     
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    Thanks for the reinforcement guys, but I'm not basing my size off of the pornos as I know they're supposed to be big, but I've never seen another person's penis before. It looks small to me probably because I have really large upper legs. I think that might be contributing.

    Thanks anyway.

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    The angle from which you're likely viewing it also makes it seem smaller than it is, for what it's worth.
     
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    You're only 14 mate with several years left of adolescence to go so don't worry. The penis more develops later on with many males, some earlier. And don't worry to much about size and as for porn, most it is not real. I use to know a bloke who made pornography for online viewing until the Howard Government illegalised the making of online porn in Australia due to the abuse found to be happening. He had some interesting stories about how things are faked such as large objects going inside the body and those huge cum shots. It's rarely real. Just entertainment.
     
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    7.5, i win :grin:

    seriously though, most ADULT men are 6", so you're good now, and you will get even bigger, trust me.

    you shouldn't feel ashamed, you should go brag about it (!)
     
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    Jesus crist.
     
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    he's 14! lool
     
  14. CharlieHK

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    Yeah, porn actors are very large, most guys would consider 7 inches a blessing.

    P.S. My penis is so small it's a clitoris.
     
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    Size matters to me also, but if I were you, I'd be bloody proud of that 7-incher. Mine is just barely 5 inches at full erection, and it acts like it's slowly growing but I think it's done growing. I'm 21 and wonder if it'll grow any longer. I know it can take both my hands to grab it, but that's optional. I saw this vid once of a guy, his literally took both hands to work it, and it looked so beautiful. I do like mine but I just wish it were 6-8 inches at the very least. Ugh, sadness. :frowning2:
     
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    5 inches sounds good to me, pleasure not pain is what I would like to experience when the time comes :slight_smile:
     
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    Thanks to all, again, but Yoshi, I heard that everything pretty much stops growing at 21 years. Sorry bro.:icon_sad:
     
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    1. Seven Inches.... good god man, you're younger than me and you ALREADY are larger than me! o.o

    2. I would not worry about your size too much honestly, because most people, gay or straight, will tell you that size does not really matter much in the case of sex. There has been no scientific evidence to support such a theory and scientists claim that people who do feel a difference call the case of the placebo effect. (look it up)
     
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    I know what a placebo is, and when/if I find a sexual partner (hopefully after marriage, unless it's a man) if it does like bigger penises, I think it would still be better, even it is in my/it's head.